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The Chronicles of Amber & Mandie Part 2

August 17, 2011 Mandie HELLO ARE YOU ALIVE?

August 17, 2011 Amber yeah

August 17, 2011 Mandie I text you ass

August 17, 2011 Amber i txt u back ass

August 17, 2011 Mandie didnt get it

August 17, 2011 Amber yah yah

August 17, 2011 Mandie If I got it I wouldnt of messaged you on here tard

August 17, 2011 Amber ok i guess i believe u i’m open all day

August 17, 2011 Mandie cool I am to after taking colton to school what do you think about a spa day at capri college. SUPER cheap

August 17, 2011 Amber hmm…

August 17, 2011 Mandie hour massage is $30

August 17, 2011 Amber i think i NEED that

August 17, 2011 Mandie I know I need it!

August 17, 2011 Amber especially with the weeks of overtime i’m going to have to do…

August 17, 2011 Mandie I will make us an appointment I am going to get a massage and a facial

August 17, 2011 Amber ok

August 17, 2011 Mandie Hopefully they can get us in I left a message we shall see how have ya guys been

August 17, 2011 Amber ehh alright

August 17, 2011 Mandie just alright?

August 17, 2011 Amber yeah

August 17, 2011 Mandie something wrong?

August 17, 2011 Amber uber stressed

August 17, 2011 Mandie why

August 17, 2011 Amber the usual… money

August 17, 2011 Mandie ah

August 17, 2011 Amber i’m going to be working as much overtime as i can over the next several weeks though, as long as it’s offered until we’re caught up

August 17, 2011 Mandie well thats good then

August 17, 2011 Amber yeah just don’t like seeing the $1000 in the red part

August 17, 2011 Mandie how are you that far in the hole your bank account is negitive $1000.00?

August 17, 2011 Amber well, it’s going to cost about $300 total for josie when that time comes, plus about another $125 for each of the other 3 cats for their shots if we do exams with it no our bank account isn’t but it will be if we don’t come up with the money

August 17, 2011 Mandie well that doesnt sound like money you need right away so dont stress over it you cant stress over things that arent here yet josie could live another year, no vet ever knows how long a cat has

August 17, 2011 Amber well clyde’s getting his shots on the 9/1, dinia on 9/22, and stormy on 10/13

August 17, 2011 Mandie well thats a lot less then 1000

August 17, 2011 Amber plus what we’re already behind… it comes to about $1000 total

August 17, 2011 Mandie thought you were making good money working over time or are you spending more then you are making

August 17, 2011 Amber no just not making enough

August 17, 2011 Mandie maybe it is time for Dave to get a better job so the weight of it all doesnt rest on you

August 17, 2011 Amber lol dave’s job is twice as good as mine

August 17, 2011 Mandie then you guys should be doing great!

August 17, 2011 Amber that’s the problem, i’m the one who needs a better job not with our bills we’re not

August 17, 2011 Mandie eliminate things you really dont need makes a HUGE difference

August 17, 2011 Amber i’ve gotten rid of everything we can possibly get rid of

August 17, 2011 Mandie quit smoking, stop getting your nails done, clip coupons, get rid of cable or down size channels that can save you a couple hundred a month there

August 17, 2011 Amber our satellite is a contract, can’t afford an early termination fee

August 17, 2011 Mandie we went to basic cable and got netflix and that alone saved us $80 a month

August 17, 2011 Amber the quitting smoking i am struggling with… it’s not easy

August 17, 2011 Mandie your probably spending as much in gas as you are making so your job might not be that great $9 an hour isn’t much with these gas prices

August 17, 2011 Amber oh the gas to and from hardly makes a dent in the paycheck

August 17, 2011 Mandie i dunno maybe you need to have some take a look at your finances a fresh look might make you see some things you dont

August 17, 2011 Amber yeah i don’t know for now though i’m going to bed

August 17, 2011 Mandie ok have a good one sounds like we should skip the spa but we can do lunch if you want

August 18, 2011 Amber u want to skip the spa?

August 18, 2011 Mandie why?

August 18, 2011 Amber u said we should skip the spa?

August 18, 2011 Mandie No I sent that lastnight were going dude

August 18, 2011 Amber ohhh lol

August 18, 2011 Mandie i need it bad!

August 18, 2011 Amber me too!!!

August 18, 2011 Mandie she had to squeez us in, they are full

August 18, 2011 Amber besides, if we postpone the cat shots (except for rabies shots) then we’ll survive more comfortably well, we’re important, we deserve to be squeezed in!

August 18, 2011 Amber i assume by now u saw the gift i left on ur desk

August 18, 2011 Mandie No what gift?

August 18, 2011 Amber the bag on ur desk

August 18, 2011 Mandie never noticed Haven’t really had time to go into my office for more then 10 seconds

August 18, 2011 Amber well go look!!!

August 18, 2011 Mandie my desk is a MESS! just took me 5 minutes to find a pen! I will when I ma leaving

August 18, 2011 Amber grr no NOW!

August 18, 2011 Mandie lol I can’t I am in a conf. chat with scentsy

August 18, 2011 Mandie Time for me to get my butt in gear, see you in a bit

August 18, 2011 Amber okies

August 19, 2011 Mandie I miss you bitch

August 19, 2011 Amber awww

August 19, 2011 Mandie how does dave like your hair?

August 19, 2011 Amber he likes it

August 19, 2011 Mandie good has it caused hot wild sex?

August 19, 2011 Amber lol not yet

August 19, 2011 Mandie you guys are lame take some viagra for god sake

August 19, 2011 Amber hahaha

August 19, 2011 Mandie working tomorrow?

August 19, 2011 Amber no we’re going out to lake george

August 19, 2011 Mandie oh ya thought you said that was next weekend

August 19, 2011 Amber that’s lake geneva

August 19, 2011 Mandie oh fun

August 20, 2011 Mandie when are you guys leaving?

August 20, 2011 Amber doesn’t seem we’re going… dang rain

August 20, 2011 Mandie aww that stinks sorry to hear

August 20, 2011 Amber yah

August 20, 2011 Mandie Im laying around in a tshirt watching lifetime if that sounds more exciting lol

August 20, 2011 Amber haha

August 20, 2011 Mandie coltons at his moms for the night and alex is going to a concert so I am solo if you want to do something you have my number

August 20, 2011 Amber lol ok let’s do a movie about 7-ish at nova6

August 20, 2011 Mandie depends whats playing

August 20, 2011 Amber ok i’ll look cars2 lol

August 20, 2011 Mandie no

August 20, 2011 Amber ooh friends with benefits bad teacher? not heard of it bridesmaids

August 20, 2011 Mandie friends with benefits or bridesmaids are the only to that sound half way decent

August 20, 2011 Amber i wanna see friends with benefits

August 20, 2011 Mandie neither look great but id watch either friends with benefits is fine

August 20, 2011 Amber 7:2

August 20, 2011 Mandie ya

August 25, 2011 Mandie My cousin is in town and staying the night, we are going to do dinner somewhere. Want to come?

August 26, 2011 Mandie I have text you twice to check on you even said I wanted to come by and see how you are. It’s almost 9 and I haven’t heard anything… don’t say I never TRY to be there for you. Have a good one

August 26, 2011 Amber I haven’t gotten any txts of the sort

August 26, 2011 Mandie I find it incredibly hard to believe you are the only person on earth who NEVER gets my text

August 26, 2011 Amber Well I didn’t get ANY from you today

August 26, 2011 Mandie Ok…. If you say so

August 26, 2011 Amber Have a good one

August 26, 2011 Mandie Whatever amber

September 7, 2011 Mandie get your old ass to bed what are you dong up so late?

September 7, 2011 Amber I don’t have to work until 10

September 7, 2011 Mandie oh ya! hey what do you know I will be up at the ass crack of dawn! You could meet me for breakfast

September 7, 2011 Amber i won’t have time

September 7, 2011 Mandie yaya

September 10, 2011 Mandie the one night you go out of town I need someone SOOOO bad!

September 11, 2011 Mandie I have to be honest about something so it doesn’t eat at me. Lastnight when you text me you seemed to sound concerned that I was in the hospital though I never got another text, talked to you earlier and didn’t once ask if everything was ok or anything. Maybe it’s just me but if you were in the hospital over night I would ask if you are ok or need anything. you had house work to do understandable and facebook games of course. but it would of been nice to get a text or something asking if everything was ok.

September 11, 2011 Amber i did txt you and im you to make sure you were ok and you said you were fine, what else am i supposed to do?

September 11, 2011 Mandie Nothing

September 11, 2011 Amber alright then, so what’s the problem?

September 11, 2011 Mandie Not a thing amber not a thing have a good one

September 11, 2011 Amber exactly

September 11, 2011 Mandie Exactly what? put yourself in my shoes.. I got admited into the hospital get a text from you when I am there sounding oh so concered then that’s it.. Katy has been by just to make sure I am ok after sitting here with Colton all night lastnight while I was in the hospital you are capable of playing facebook games but can *can’t drive over and see how I am or anything

September 11, 2011 Amber oh i don’t even what to hear it

September 11, 2011 Mandie don’t want to hear it? thanks!

September 11, 2011 Amber i called 5 times and txted and told you to keep me posted and you basically blew me off like you didn’t want me there, so why would i make any extra effort?

September 11, 2011 Mandie want you here are you serious you text me and said sorry I seen you needed me after I already got here!

September 11, 2011 Amber that’s not my fault! i was driving for crying out loud!

September 11, 2011 Mandie I’m fine though THANK YOU I am 6 weeks preganant and off my feet for a few days but couldn’t be happier! Then again you don’t want to hear it

September 11, 2011 Amber you’re perfectly capable of CALLING ME if you need me instead of sending me a message i won’t get for AN HOUR AND A HALF and then whining that i didn’t respond because i was DRIVING

September 11, 2011 Mandie I don’t need you.. I had my friends here that knew I needed them and I didn’t even have to ask!

September 11, 2011 Amber i called FIVE TIMES and texted MORE THAN ONCE and texted you THIS MORNING TO MAKE SURE YOU WERE OK

September 11, 2011 Mandie Wining are you serious? Bye amber

September 11, 2011 Amber and when my cat died i told you i needed you and you were NEVER THERE FOR ME

September 11, 2011 Mandie Goodbye I am done with this I tell you what I am bothered by and you turn it around on me

September 11, 2011 Amber i don’t need to hear BS about how i’m such a horrible friend when i did the best i could under the circumstances i was damn near having a panic attack when i got those messages and trying to call you FIVE TIMES and then you act like you don’t want me to bother

September 11, 2011 Mandie Did I say you were a horrible friend? Thats you being dramatic and putting words in my mouth

September 11, 2011 Amber i turn it around on you because i could not control the circumstances you laid out i am not being dramatic, you are bothered by me not checking on you after you blew me off?


September 11, 2011 Amber when i was so concerned that i was nearly having a panic attack and trying to call you repeatedly ok and then when you do have time to respond you blew me off i tried to be there and you wouldn’t let me i couldn’t be there in person i was trying my damndest to be there in whatever way i could but you didn’t want it you didn’t even want to tell me what was going on i felt like i had to pry it out of you i was ready to start sending messages on fb to alex and cherish to see if they knew wtf was going on because i didn’t know if you had passed out or something you need me today? tell me instead of just asking me what i’m doing like i’m supposed to have the slightest idea, for all i know you want to meet for lunch and i don’t feel like that because my stomach is tore up from anxiety over you i realized the only housework i really have to do today is laundry so yeah all i’ve been doing is playing facebook games while waiting on it to finish washing and drying i am happy to be here for you, TRYING to be there for you, and your response is that you’re bothered by it need me to bring you something? chicken noodle soup? ice pack? hot pack? i’m more than happy but for crying out loud don’t make me feel like i’m a bad person when i was trying my damndest to be there the only way possible if you’re deleting me AGAIN it is for good because this is childish bullshit

October 4, 2011 Mandie How ya feeling now?

October 4, 2011 Amber starving… exhausted though… and my stomach feels weird…

October 4, 2011 Mandie eat light I just ate and feel SOOOO much better, hadn’t ate since applebees

October 4, 2011 Amber i tried to eat last night and well ended up sicker today i think it was applebees, i really seriously do we both ate there, and both felt sick

October 4, 2011 Mandie ya I was throwing up 20 minutes after walking in the door and didn”t stop until the next day

October 4, 2011 Amber oh my gosh!!

October 4, 2011 Mandie i just drank water and juice all day yesturday i didnt eat anything solid until just a few minutes ago

October 4, 2011 Amber yeah that’s where i messed up, had stuffed green peppers last night see i had to get a note from work, and telling the dr abt my symptoms and that i didn’t really know what was causing it, he was prompt to send me for testing because if it was from the food the health department would want to know yeah dr says clear fluids for 24 hrs, then stuff like rice and applesauce and toast can be added, and 24 hrs after that i can have non-bland solids…

October 4, 2011 Mandie i have had food poisoning twice you just have to let it take its course and get out of your system

October 4, 2011 Amber yeah i had it once before

October 5, 2011 Mandie feeling better?

October 5, 2011 Amber no

October 5, 2011 Mandie that stinks sorry to hear

October 5, 2011 Amber

October 5, 2011 Mandie are you eatting light?

October 5, 2011 Amber yeah like nothing at all

October 5, 2011 Mandie well that wont help you at all Well its obviously not food poisoning if you are still sick so maybe it’s just the flu

October 5, 2011 Amber food poisoning can last up to 10 days

October 5, 2011 Mandie not most of the time I have to take some movies back later.. need anything?

October 5, 2011 Amber no i’m ok, thanx i’m gonna take a nap now… ttyl

October 5, 2011 Mandie ok

October 5, 2011 Mandie Nap help?

October 5, 2011 Amber couldn’t sleep… but i ate a bit and am not running to the bathroom… stomach is killing me though, feels like a knife is stabbing through it

October 5, 2011 Mandie take some gas X do you have any?

October 5, 2011 Amber no

October 5, 2011 Mandie it may help a bit and I know it helps with IBS

October 5, 2011 Amber i know… it just sucks i’ve had it once before and it didn’t last this long but idk if it is or isn’t yet…

October 5, 2011 Mandie I have to return my movies still I can bring you some I am taking them like sweet tarts

October 5, 2011 Amber still not the best either?

October 5, 2011 Mandie I just have to take them cuz of the little turtle in my tummy causes tummy cramps

October 5, 2011 Amber turtle lol it’s a BABY!!!

October 5, 2011 Mandie ya that’s what my cousin calls her

October 5, 2011 Amber i’m gonna tell ur kid u called it a turtle

October 5, 2011 Mandie notice I am already saying her lol

October 5, 2011 Amber i was thinking the same thing… “her”

October 5, 2011 Mandie let me know if you want me to bring you some I will be taking my movies back no later then 9

October 5, 2011 Amber at the one by my house? i just realized… i think i have pepto bismol chewables…

October 5, 2011 Mandie ya it’s the only family video

October 5, 2011 Amber it is? hmm never knew it and the chewables expired in july… wonder if they’ll still have a little potency eww they’re gross…

October 5, 2011 Mandie yum

October 5, 2011 Amber tastes like sugary chalk

October 5, 2011 Mandie even better

October 5, 2011 Amber yeah… i guess if u don’t mind sparing a couple doses i’ll take ’em off ur hands… probably would help

October 5, 2011 Mandie they help a LOT

October 5, 2011 Mandie oK Alex just got home so I will be by in a few

October 5, 2011 Amber ok

October 6, 2011 Mandie did those gas x help?

October 6, 2011 Mandie Are you feeling better?

October 6, 2011 Amber No…

October 6, 2011 Mandie really? you have to have the flu then if you still aren’t over feeling sick

October 6, 2011 Amber Yeah…

October 6, 2011 Mandie take pepto and eat light

October 6, 2011 Mandie you obviously just have a nasty stomach bug

October 6, 2011 Amber Well the lab has the results i’ll find out tomorrow

October 6, 2011 Mandie well thats good if it matters at this point lol are you even working?

October 6, 2011 Amber Yeah

October 6, 2011 Mandie well thats good atleast, you aren’t in pain or to sick to work thats a plus

October 6, 2011 Amber Yeah

October 6, 2011 Mandie well hope you get better it’s to bad your sick I just wone two free spa packages and only have until monday to use them

October 6, 2011 Amber Aww

October 6, 2011 Mandie well I will let ya go have a good one

October 8, 2011 Mandie hey hooker what are you up to?

October 9, 2011 Mandie did you get your nap?

October 16, 2011 Mandie why did you status say you needed a place to crash?

October 16, 2011 Amber Oh i’ve just had it with him… I want to leave but I have nowhere to go and not enough money to go with

October 16, 2011 Mandie what happen?

October 16, 2011 Amber I came home and he had gotten wasted by himself again

October 16, 2011 Mandie wow are you guys fighting or just not talking?

October 16, 2011 Amber I just don’t want to be with him anymore…. That was just the last straw not the reason Idk what to do or where I can go

October 16, 2011 Mandie You know you dont mean that

October 16, 2011 Amber Sadly, I do

October 16, 2011 Mandie Well you know my door is always open

October 16, 2011 Amber This marriage has been falling apart for years

October 16, 2011 Mandie Need to get out of the house for a little bit? We can get together and you can vent

October 16, 2011 Amber Yeah but I haven’t showered Well shower will only take 10 minutes

October 16, 2011 Mandie go shower and get dressed I have to do the same, we can meet and have lunch and talk might make you feel better ok? I I’ll text you when I’m done

October 16, 2011 Amber Ok

October 19, 2011 Mandie you know me.. so you know that this message may piss you off but it’s just me being honest and open with you because I care and love you. I hate to hear the things you are dealing with, but as your friend and a married woman I think what you are doing isn’t cool. I understand you say you are done with your marrige but you have been with dave half of your life almost don’t you think you owe it to him to have a conversation. It was sad tonight reading on his twitter that he is thinking about the love of his life. If you like charles and you think he can make you happy then so be it.. but dave isn’t just your boyfriend he is your husband you cant just walk out the door and not look back. Charles has a girlfriend, that he is cheating on with you. That doesn’t make you wonder if the same would be done to you? I am not judging him by any means I don’t even know him. But it seems like your jumping into another relationship and you haven’t ended the one you are in. I offered to let you stay in my home, told josh he had to move out so you could have the bedroom. For three days you have told me you are coming over I have went out of my way to make things comfortable for you and help you in anyway possible and you are just being unappreciative. You tell me you are coming over tonight we canceled our plans to be here.. I wouldn’t even of heard from you if I hadn’t text you and asked you where you are staying. I wont be here foever waiting to help you. I am being a friend and I care. you have to get your priorites straight before this blows up in your face. You aren’t the type to cheat on your husband, you aren’t the type to cheat with a guy in a relationship without thinking about how his girlfriend has to feel. Agin sorry if this pisses you off but you should be use to me by now.

I love you and I care

October 19, 2011 Amber I’m not pissed… Dave and I did talk, and most of his side was what I was taking and what I was leaving. I’m not spending the nights with charles I got a cheap motel so I wouldn’t get to ur house in the middle of the night and wake u up… Idk what i’m doing there are a million things going through my head… Particularly that as soon as Dave finds out what i’ve done he won’t want me back… And I can’t lie to him to keep him if I choose to go back… I feel like i’ve fucked up my life to try and be happy and I can’t afford to be on my own… Idk i’m so torn…

October 19, 2011 Mandie You should be.. you are going about things in a really stupid way.

October 20, 2011 Amber Yeah I know… I talked to Dave some more tonight on the phone… I told him about Charles and he said he knew I’d sleep with him and that he partially blames himself for making the whole boy toy challenge so he said he can’t really be upset at me about that, but that he is upset that instead of taking time to really think things through I went and slept with him… which I understand… I just don’t even know… this is such a huge decision to make I just know that I haven’t been happy in a LONG time and I have lost faith that he can make me happy… and that Charles does… I have a lot to think about… Dave knows I’m in a hotel so I’m probably going to spend a few more days here… if I haven’t made a decision then I will have to find somewhere else, either ur house or Sheila has offered hers also… it’s hard to think about walking away from 10 years I’ve spent with someone who I do love… and at the same time what I want more than anything is happiness… I just have to figure out what’s going to make me happy in the long run…

October 20, 2011 Amber And I’m sorry I didn’t come there it was so late by the time I left Charles’ it would have been rude to show up, so I paid 2 nights for this room… I figure I stay here for a few more days, see if I can come up with a decision, and if not then go on to the original plan…

October 20, 2011 Mandie If you want to be happy then get happy, dont leave your husband for another guy WHO HAS A GIRLFRIEND if he was that unhappy then he would of left her not cheat on her! You don’t leave a 10 year marriage to jump into another one.. you need to do what will make you happy and find happiness within yourself not needing a man to do it.

October 20, 2011 Amber My mom and I just talked, she said u’d msg’d her… she’d sent me a few messages but was trying not to pry… and I’d wanted to talk to her so much but didn’t know where to begin… so we just talked for a while… it was much needed…

October 20, 2011 Mandie good

October 20, 2011 Amber Yeah she’s known for 6 years that I haven’t been happy with Dave… And I told her about Charles… and she’s with you on that one… and yet I don’t feel like, even if I do get in a relationship with him, that’d I’d be leaving Dave for him… I’d be leaving Dave for me… I just need time to think before making a final decision…

October 20, 2011 Mandie Amber you dont have to convince other people you are doing the right thing.. it’s your life I just voiced an opinion because I think you are going about things in a totaly wrong way

October 20, 2011 Amber I know… I just don’t want people to judge me… getting paranoid I guess

October 20, 2011 Mandie but after commenting I realized its not my place or my life

October 20, 2011 Amber It’s ok to voice your opinions, I’m not mad… I’m taking them to heart and thinking about them

October 20, 2011 Mandie You hit the nail on the head… if you leave dave leave dave for you not another guy take time for you and I know thats not what you are doing back yourself away from charles for a few days and take time to think

October 20, 2011 Amber No, I’ve been spending time with Charles because he makes me so happy But I need to see farther down the road, and when I’m with Charles I get tunnel vision I love you, u r my bff

October 20, 2011 Mandie like I said pull your head out of his ass and take time for you

October 20, 2011 Amber That’s what I’ve been doing all day… listening to music… thinking… and since I have hard time focusing on just one thing I have to admit I’ve been playing facebook games too Oh no, did u just post that abt ur laptop???

October 20, 2011 Mandie yes.. its acting nuts and trying to run crazy scans I think its going to crash

October 20, 2011 Amber Oh no…

October 20, 2011 Mandie if it does im going to just break it in half

October 20, 2011 Amber uh oh

October 20, 2011 Mandie anyways what are you up to this weeknd?

October 20, 2011 Amber working on saturday… idk what else

October 20, 2011 Mandie fun I need to go out of town saturday but alex wont let me drive

October 20, 2011 Amber aww

October 20, 2011 Mandie ya i guess what motel have you been staying at

October 20, 2011 Amber the quad cities inn… cheap ass place

October 20, 2011 Mandie fun!

October 20, 2011 Amber oh yeah lol

October 20, 2011 Mandie thought you were stressed about money

October 20, 2011 Amber yeah i am i know… it shows…

October 20, 2011 Mandie ya! I don’t know about you

October 20, 2011 Amber i don’t know about me either

October 20, 2011 Mandie if you were a man I would say you are thinking with your dick not your brain

October 20, 2011 Amber lol

October 20, 2011 Mandie something I am curious about! Have you and charles just had sex the once? or having you been having sex regularly

October 20, 2011 Amber no… heading in the direction of regularly does twice last night count as 3 times total or twice total?

October 20, 2011 Mandie so 1 you are thinking with your dick not your brain

October 20, 2011 Amber except that i can’t get him off my brain… and not his dick, him

October 20, 2011 Mandie 2 I find it interesting that you always talked about your “lack of drive” and that sex was to painful so you guys never enjoyed sex.. but yet you are having regular sex it had nothing to do with your drive.. it was the passion

October 20, 2011 Amber yeah well that is interesting because the only one it’s ever been painful with has been dave yeah the passion and romance have been gone for a LONG time

October 20, 2011 Mandie maybe you allowed yourself to think it was and that became your excuse not to have sex

October 20, 2011 Amber no cuz i still had sex with him every time he wanted which was still only once every 2 – 4 months

October 20, 2011 Mandie but as his wife you should of been jumping on him even if he didnt want sex and you werent even the night i was there you didn’t want him involved at all

October 20, 2011 Amber i think he should have equally been jumping on me though he could have gotten involved if he wanted brb sorry stomach…

October 20, 2011 Mandie I need to go to burlington coat factory.. when do you wanna come take me

October 20, 2011 Amber oh let’s see idk what i’m doing after 2pm saturday…

October 20, 2011 Mandie what are you doing tomorrow?

October 20, 2011 Amber working 9:30 to 8

October 20, 2011 Mandie ah nevermind I may just go tomorrow

October 20, 2011 Amber fine be that way

October 20, 2011 Mandie ah i dunno… maybe saturday I just need new comfy clothes for florida

October 20, 2011 Amber well just let me know

October 20, 2011 Mandie ok

October 20, 2011 Amber why oh why can i not eat??

October 20, 2011 Mandie one day soon I need to go to peoria and this weekend I’m colton free

October 20, 2011 Amber like overnight or day trip?

October 20, 2011 Mandie just for a few hours

October 20, 2011 Amber i gotta check out by 10am sunday

October 20, 2011 Mandie ah

October 20, 2011 Mandie so check out before you go to work

October 20, 2011 Amber i don’t work sunday

October 20, 2011 Mandie oh

October 20, 2011 Amber my brother’s trying to call me and i’m tethered so i’m signing off for a bit

October 20, 2011 Mandie ok have a good one

October 20, 2011 Amber u too

October 24, 2011 Mandie how are things going?

October 24, 2011 Amber AMAZING!

October 26, 2011 Amber The red bushes in our front yard are called bleeding hearts

October 26, 2011 Mandie cool

October 26, 2011 Mandie we arent sure if we need you to keep cheech we will se hello are you there

October 26, 2011 Amber Dave will be devastated if i tell him that

October 26, 2011 Mandie No he wont, it’s just a dog

October 26, 2011 Amber He said he will

November 3, 2011 Mandie so whats your deal? you left pissy after I said we wont have you watch cheech anymore.. then I text you and get nothing

November 4, 2011 Amber I wasn’t pissy, my head was hurting… Also it Kinda seemed like u didn’t want to talk so I figured ah well

November 4, 2011 Mandie I was annoyed by you telling me the comment dave made. It seems he always has a sarcastic comment when you guys watch cheech

November 4, 2011 Amber Ok

November 4, 2011 Mandie what are you doing today snob

November 4, 2011 Amber Driving to ur house bitch

November 4, 2011 Mandie I’m leaving

November 4, 2011 Amber Oh…

November 8, 2011 Mandie Hello?? ignoring me AGAIN

November 9, 2011 Mandie hello???

November 9, 2011 Mandie why wont you respond?

November 11, 2011 Mandie hey are you on here

November 11, 2011 Amber yeah

November 11, 2011 Mandie I need you to do me a favor

November 11, 2011 Amber ok

November 11, 2011 Mandie i have something posted on ebay I need the bid bumped up a couple dollars

November 11, 2011 Amber what’s it at right now?

November 11, 2011 Mandie $25.00 You wont win it I know how much people are bidding if you do I just retract your bid

November 11, 2011 Amber do u have a link?

November 11, 2011 Mandie bid $1 at a time and see if it says you are outbid

November 11, 2011 Amber do u not want the person bidding to get it? or u just trying to get them up

November 11, 2011 Mandie just trying to get the bid up the item is worth $40

November 11, 2011 Amber they only put up to 25.55

November 11, 2011 Mandie ok thats fine cheap basterds lol

November 11, 2011 Amber haha

November 11, 2011 Mandie I have a crap load of scentsy to get rid of, I just listed some of it

November 11, 2011 Amber yeah i need to do something about the passion parties inventory too

November 11, 2011 Mandie I would list it as a lot if it does go then break it up

November 11, 2011 Amber they haven’t deactivated me though yet which is weird

November 11, 2011 Mandie I want to look at what you have I may buy some of it

November 11, 2011 Amber ok

November 11, 2011 Mandie why isn’t your old ass in bed

November 11, 2011 Amber cuz i’ve been having a sneezing attack since i got home… and i’m busy eating my lips…

November 11, 2011 Mandie lol your such a dork

November 11, 2011 Amber lol i think i am going to bed now… starting to get a headache… and done sneezing

November 11, 2011 Mandie Have fun! Iam snuggled up on the couch and comfy!

November 11, 2011 Amber don’t stay up too late lol

November 11, 2011 Mandie I can sleep all day tomorrow

November 13, 2011 Mandie what are you up to

November 13, 2011 Amber Switching out the movie tickets then going home to watch the race with Dave

November 13, 2011 Mandie awesome!

November 13, 2011 Amber Yeah So can u cxl my bid so it will go tp th To the next highest biddet Biddet Err can’t type

November 13, 2011 Mandie I already tryed it wont let me it keeps saying the buyer has to I’m messing with it now I told you right after you made the bid if you weren’t the highest bidder then to retract it.. but you didnt dum dum

November 13, 2011 Amber I can’t it says seller has to Nooo u said YOU would retract my bid

November 13, 2011 Mandie ok amber im not going to argue with you I will do what I can! as a seller you cant retract someones bid the bidder has to

November 13, 2011 Amber I’m not mad just annoyed at ebay sorry for taking it out on u

November 13, 2011 Mandie I dont think you were understanding what I was asking you to do

November 13, 2011 Amber And stupid ebay keeps telling me the seller has to Ehh we’ll figure it out

November 13, 2011 Mandie it sent you a request to cancel the transaction you have to aprove it

November 13, 2011 Amber Ohhhh ok got it Got my ticket does urs say screen 1?

November 13, 2011 Mandie No screen 7 but thats doesn’t matter

November 13, 2011 Amber Oh ok

November 13, 2011 Mandie we will just both go in the same one lo

November 13, 2011 Amber Lol

November 13, 2011 Mandie If you feel like getting out get ahold of me.. have a MAJOR shitty day could use some fresh air

November 13, 2011 Amber Not really feeling like going out today but ur welcome to come over!

November 13, 2011 Mandie no thats fine no biggy my cousin said she would drive up to talk have a good one

November 16, 2011 Amber 4538 11th ave b, moline il 61265

November 18, 2011 Mandie How ya feeling

November 18, 2011 Mandie hello? Ok well I guess get ahold of me whenever

November 19, 2011 Mandie whats up

November 21, 2011 Mandie Going to respond yet?

November 22, 2011 Mandie up for getting out later?

November 22, 2011 Amber no… about to lay down

November 22, 2011 Mandie ok have a good one

November 22, 2011 Mandie please stop selecting my e-mail address for your facebook games

November 22, 2011 Amber Umm I’m not

November 22, 2011 Mandie ya some how you are like 3 times a day I get any e-mail for your castleville everytime I try and delete it my e-mail freezes for a minute its a request to play ok????

November 23, 2011 Mandie well when do you go to the doctor? I take it I am being ignored again… goodluck

November 23, 2011 Amber I haven’t even been at my computer

November 23, 2011 Mandie wasnt sure your pretty good at ignoring me SOOO when do you go to the doctor?

November 23, 2011 Amber noon

November 23, 2011 Mandie fun fun well hopefully they tell you what you want to hear

November 23, 2011 Mandie Do you not want to tell me how it went Guess so

December 2, 2011 Mandie want me to come pick you up when I got tomorrow? *go

December 4, 2011 Mandie hey you

December 4, 2011 Amber yo

December 4, 2011 Mandie lol I just text you back what are you up to

December 4, 2011 Amber just waking up myself

December 4, 2011 Mandie damn were lazzy

December 4, 2011 Amber lol

December 4, 2011 Mandie any plans for the day?

December 4, 2011 Amber not really… my… er… uh… groin hurts… where the holes are the ones I wasn’t born with

December 4, 2011 Mandie lol they will stop hurting, I asked my cousin how long they hurt for she said as long as you dont baby it they wont hurt long, not moving much makes the muscles tense up and makes it hurt more then it should

December 4, 2011 Amber yeah it just hurts to walk far too though

December 4, 2011 Mandie ya Well I am thinking OG today so let me know if you want to get out and move around for a bit

December 4, 2011 Amber i’ll DEFINITELY keep that in mind…

December 4, 2011 Mandie ok just shoot me a text

December 4, 2011 Amber okies

December 5, 2011 Mandie hey!

December 6, 2011 Mandie talk to dave about keeping Cheech while we are gone and let me know if he is hesitant then dont worry about it

December 6, 2011 Amber oh i already know he’ll be overjoyed!

December 6, 2011 Mandie you would have to get him thursday night and I will come get him monday

December 6, 2011 Amber ok

December 6, 2011 Mandie we leave early friday and im not sure what time we get back monday id have to let ya know that

December 6, 2011 Amber ok

December 8, 2011 Mandie whats up assjack

December 8, 2011 Amber nothin\

December 8, 2011 Mandie I commented on your check in!

December 8, 2011 Amber didn’t see it yet

December 8, 2011 Mandie So joe still hasnt got back to me I hate having him dog sit, I don’t trust him

December 8, 2011 Amber oh gosh

December 8, 2011 Mandie He told Alex he didnt want the dogs at his house but he would come here and let them out my dogs are the type that can be left alone for a couple days in the house they are to spoiled and use to being around people

December 8, 2011 Amber yeah

December 8, 2011 Mandie ok you obviously sucked into your facebook games lol

December 8, 2011 Amber spending time with dave

December 8, 2011 Mandie EWWWW lol get ahold of me later if you want

December 8, 2011 Amber haha will probably be going to bed shortly… txt me if u need to bring cheech over

December 8, 2011 Mandie It wouldn’t be tonight, if it works out and Joe takes princess Ill probably ask ya to come get him before we leave tomorrow, we are planning to be at the airport by noon

December 8, 2011 Amber oh ok

December 9, 2011 Mandie what are the chances of you watching both of my babies? No?

December 9, 2011 Amber dave’ll live…

December 9, 2011 Mandie Joe still wont answer if he will let princess stay at his house

December 9, 2011 Amber oh geez…

December 9, 2011 Mandie he always done because shes the good one but i cant wait any longer it’s annoying the shit out of me *does

December 9, 2011 Amber well i love both cheech and princess… so bring ’em on!

December 9, 2011 Mandie Ok but remember you REALLY have to watch her she will run away quicker then shit expecialy when you are opening and closing your door

December 9, 2011 Amber yep I know

December 9, 2011 Mandie Ok, want to come get them at 11?

December 9, 2011 Amber sure

December 9, 2011 Mandie awesome I will have them ready

December 9, 2011 Amber okies

December 12, 2011 Mandie do you want me to come get the dogs or do you wanna bring them home?

December 12, 2011 Amber if u can come get them that’d be great, really weak and dizzy today

December 12, 2011 Mandie ok thats fine..any rush?

December 12, 2011 Amber nope you can get them in a week or two if you want LOL

December 12, 2011 Mandie lol Im exhausted at the moment i have NO energy to get dressed and get in the car at the moment went to bed at midnight and back up at 3

December 12, 2011 Amber oh gosh

December 12, 2011 Mandie ya

December 12, 2011 Amber take ur time, they’re both sleeping anyway

December 12, 2011 Mandie aww I will be VERY ready for tomorrow, my body hurts appointments at 10 right?

December 12, 2011 Amber yeah

December 12, 2011 Mandie still going?

December 12, 2011 Amber yeah

December 12, 2011 Mandie well im gonna lay down ill shoot you a text when im heading your way

December 12, 2011 Amber ok

December 12, 2011 Amber hey u

December 12, 2011 Mandie hey..sorry I just opened my eyes I dont think I have ever been so tired in my life

December 12, 2011 Amber awwww

December 12, 2011 Mandie is dave mad that i havent gotten them

December 12, 2011 Amber ur pups are sleeping too hehe no, it’s his lap they’re snuggled up in

December 12, 2011 Mandie Do mind if I just get them in the morning when we get together?

December 12, 2011 Amber that’s fine

December 12, 2011 Mandie want to meet here?

December 12, 2011 Amber sure they’re sleeping already anyway lol

December 12, 2011 Mandie I will drive, I have to get gas in iowa anyways So Ill see you here about 9?

December 12, 2011 Amber ok

December 12, 2011 Amber So, on our way to capri, i’ll need to stop by community healthcare to pick up some paperwork, and afterwards i’ll need to swing by apac to drop it off… just remembered that

December 12, 2011 Mandie thats fine

December 12, 2011 Amber ok just wanted to make sure you didn’t mind making those couple stops

December 12, 2011 Mandie No it’s fine, our appointment is at 10 so we have to make it real quick

December 12, 2011 Amber yeah

December 13, 2011 Mandie you didnt keep the appointment for yourself?

December 13, 2011 Amber no…

December 13, 2011 Mandie why?

December 14, 2011 Mandie hey

December 14, 2011 Amber Hey just getting ready to go to bed… U ok?

December 14, 2011 Mandie just feelling kinda crummy you going back to work tomorrow?

December 14, 2011 Amber Yeah

December 14, 2011 Mandie Good! you can do it!

December 14, 2011 Amber Hope u feel better

December 14, 2011 Mandie thanks

December 29, 2011 Mandie So when does this blowing me off thing end?

December 29, 2011 Amber I have no idea what you’re talking about

December 29, 2011 Mandie ok are you not going to give me your address? Thats wasnt meant for you my fb is acting up

December 30, 2011 Amber hmm weird… my fb hasn’t been right lately either… since i do know that u don’t keep addresses lol mine is 4538 11th ave b in moline, il 61265 what r u doing today? OG for lunch sounds FANTASTIC

December 30, 2011 Mandie OMG is she actualy talking to me? HOLY SHIT

December 30, 2011 Amber LOL crackhead

December 30, 2011 Mandie your a bit of an asshole yesturday and now all bright and shiney

December 30, 2011 Amber I just was a little perturbed by you saying i’ve been blowing you off, and i’m sorry if you felt that i was but i wasn’t

December 30, 2011 Mandie then THAT should be your respons

December 30, 2011 Amber yeah i know

December 30, 2011 Mandie So i except your apology for being an AHOLE! and I will have OG with you lol

December 30, 2011 Amber LOL soooooo when do they open????? lol 11 I think… wanna go to burlington with me? I need new jeans… can’t wear tight ones anymore

December 30, 2011 Mandie REALLY? I know dummy I am 5 months pregnant ya know

December 30, 2011 Amber LOL I know I have NO jeans that aren’t tight

December 30, 2011 Mandie well you can wear them until they are uncomfortable but that happens pretty instantly so its a good idea to get some

December 30, 2011 Amber yeah my loose ones i wear to work are already uncomfortable

December 30, 2011 Mandie This could be fun being pregnant together, just don’t start being a bitch if I give you advice

December 30, 2011 Amber LOL I’ll try but u know how emotional I’m gonna be

December 30, 2011 Mandie If you start being one I’m sorry but that will really be the end of our friendship

December 30, 2011 Amber Well as long as communication is normal it won’t be a problem

December 30, 2011 Mandie Your about the only person I have here to go to when I am freaked out or stressed if that changes then I can’t do it anymore

December 30, 2011 Amber It won’t change! I’m just going to have to work harder on my reactions when I take things the wrong way

December 30, 2011 Mandie YES YOU ARE! expecialy before the baby comes being pregnant is stressful as it is, but atleast you have someone you can go to who is going through it with you and gets whats going on

December 30, 2011 Amber yeah

December 30, 2011 Mandie I have a list of the most recommended OBs in the area do you want it I already interviewed like 10 of them before I picked mine

December 30, 2011 Amber Umm, narrow it down to the ones I can afford

December 30, 2011 Mandie Mine is AMAZING and the most recommeneded by all the qc pregnancy resourses centers and he excepts every type of insurance

December 30, 2011 Amber problem is, my insurance SUCKS

December 30, 2011 Mandie well whatever your insurance doesn’t pay they break down between now and when the baby is actualy born main reason I went with him because when I foudn out I was pregnant I had NO insurance

December 30, 2011 Amber yeah… well mine has a huge deductible, then a not so bad out of pocket maximum

December 30, 2011 Mandie all of the other Ob’s I talked to you have to pay upfront what your insruance wont cover and that is expensive

December 30, 2011 Amber Yikes

December 30, 2011 Mandie You should get into to see one asap though

December 30, 2011 Amber i know

December 30, 2011 Mandie get an ultrasound and make sure everything is ok before anything Alex said hey you and Amber can kill two birds with one stone and have a join baby shower lol

December 30, 2011 Amber haha

December 30, 2011 Mandie So what time do you want to go?

December 30, 2011 Amber i’m ready whenever just gotta get dressed brush my hair and stuff

December 30, 2011 Mandie I’m waiting for Coltons mom to come and get him

December 30, 2011 Amber when’s she supposed to come?

December 30, 2011 Mandie I just text her and told her I could just bring him by

December 30, 2011 Amber ah ok

December 30, 2011 Mandie She is going to be here in an hour

December 30, 2011 Amber ah ok

December 30, 2011 Mandie I still have to get dressed so that works

December 30, 2011 Amber yep

December 30, 2011 Mandie Want to meet here?

December 30, 2011 Amber that’ll work

December 30, 2011 Mandie Ok see you in a bit..getting ready now

December 30, 2011 Amber ok me too

December 30, 2011 Mandie Get your ass off FB!

December 30, 2011 Amber I am almost to your house

January 1 Mandie Hey hooker

January 1 Amber oh hey

January 1 Mandie what r u up to?

January 1 Amber watching movies

January 1 Mandie fun fun!

January 1 Mandie you guys didnt go out lastnight?

January 1 Amber nope

January 1 Mandie ah well have fun then

January 1 Mandie somthing wrong? you seem really short

January 1 Amber sorry not really at my computer

January 2 Mandie what happen to you wanting to get your clothes done today

January 2 Amber Umm, nothing

January 2 Mandie I text you earlier to see if you still wanted help

January 2 Amber i didn’t get anything

January 2 Mandie WOW SHOCKER!

January 2 Mandie hello

January 2 Amber Yeah?

January 2 Mandie nevermind

January 2 Amber Umm ok…

January 2 Mandie wanna get together later?

January 2 Mandie nevermind

January 2 Mandie You missed te BEST massage!

January 2 Mandie HELLO? are ya there

January 3 Mandie Do you really want to throw my baby shower? If not I understand just let me know. I want to get invitations out by Feb. 1st so I want to start getting things figured out.

January 3 Amber Yeag ..

January 5 Mandie ARe you a live or what

January 5 Amber Yes …

January 5 Mandie you stopped responding

January 5 Amber I haven’t had anything to respond to

January 5 Mandie Odd text you tuesday got nothing back, messaged you on here 2 days ago about my shower and got nothing back Do you only talk to someone every couple weeks?

January 5 Amber No, I responded to those messages.

January 5 Mandie Really? Odd nothing on here or my phoen

January 5 Amber That is odd

January 5 Mandie yep just never tend to go a week or more at a time without talking to me

January 5 Amber Not reallt but ok

January 5 Mandie If you say so OK well great talk ok well bye then

January 5 Amber Umm ok… Bye…

January 5 Mandie well I’m not going to sit and have a conversation with myself or have you act like you careless to talk to me

January 5 Amber Alright well sorry u feel that way

January 5 Mandie yep of course you always say that

January 5 Amber What do you want me to say? That I think ur full of it? Sorry i’ve been busy, I have a job and dave and I have been spending a lot of time together. Not trying to sound bitchy, just explaining

January 5 Mandie I’m full of it? how am I full of it?

January 5 Amber Ok glad to see u got a lot out,of that

January 5 Mandie I got what you are saying.. and that is my question out of it

January 5 Amber What I mean by it is that it seems u are reading way too much into when u don’t get a response

January 5 Mandie NO I don’t by any means.. I don’t talk to you and dont hear from you until your bored or what to go somewhere or do something and have nobody else to go with you out of the blue I say hi, how are you, everything ok thats just ME! I don’t wait to talk to someone until I’m bored or have nobody else to do something wth

January 5 Amber I don’t really feel like u talk to me except to go eat or go shopping

January 5 Mandie You don’t? Wow I could send you probably 50 text on my phone out of the blue saying whats up, want to get together, how are you doing

January 5 Amber Yeah u could

January 5 Mandie then how do I only talk to you when I want to go shopping or out to eat

January 5 Amber I’m saying u could, but if u do I don’t get them

January 5 Mandie Just did on the first just saying hey whats up everything ok and you responded with watching movies that had nothing to do with shopping or going out to eat

January 5 Mandie Tuesday I text and asked about the dr. office

January 5 Amber Yeah, I responded too Yeah and I answered that one Oh I did call them yesterday

January 5 Mandie and again I said yesturday alex is working late want to get together did that a couple days ago to

January 5 Amber Ok so we’re at 2 just hey what’s up kinda txts and 2 going out

January 5 Mandie amber does is matter what I say You ONLY talk to me when we hang out if I try and say hi I get a shitty short reponse that sounds more like go to hell I even left a comment on your fb hey we have to get together I got something your going to love. That sounds like someone making an attempt at something past whatever half ass friendship we have had

January 5 Amber I realize that we don’t talk much outside of hanging out… part of it has to do with it

January 5 Mandie I may expect to much who knows… I atleast thought I would hear from you tuesday after my dr. appointment (hey how did things go) or something

January 5 Amber Always being iming when it’s on my phone’s messenger

January 5 Mandie So you dont talk to me because it comes as an IM on your phone?

January 5 Amber It’s hard to type…

January 5 Mandie Well I will delete you from both messengers so I dont message your phoen

January 5 Amber I’m slow on it and can’t spell well Ok that’s silly

January 5 Mandie how is it silly? why would I message you on it when your saying its the reason you dont respond

January 5 Amber When do u expect to hear from me if u delete me again

January 5 Mandie Whenever you get bored and have nothing to do..thats when I always here from you *hear

January 5 Amber I really do not appreciate that accusation at all

January 5 Mandie How is that an accusation? It’s how it is

January 5 Amber Ok well that’s a load of crap

January 5 Mandie Amber no it’s not That is the ONLY time you talk to me

January 5 Amber That is a load of crap. Goodbye.

January 5 Mandie Ah there we go thats the nice amber I love talking to Thank you very much

January 5 Amber U are being a bitch and I don’t need that or deserve it so i’m ending the conversation

January 5 Mandie I am being a bitch!

January 5 Amber Yes!

January 5 Mandie it sounds liek your back to your normal self ALL over me TRYING to talk to you GOD forbid two people are able to talk about something without Amber getting mad and calling someone a bitch

January 5 Amber Omg that’s a little extreme don’t you think

January 5 Mandie No it’s not at all.. ANYTIME I bring something up you dont agree with you call me a bitch. But if you bring up something I dont agree with I listen to it and talk about it or you get pist thats your old else *self

January 5 Amber U don’t only hear from me when i’m bored, 90% of the time we go out it’s ur idea

January 5 Mandie Ok Wouldnt think it mattered Whos idea it is.. that sounds pretty dumb

January 5 Amber So yeah that was an accusation, not fact

January 5 Mandie A fact why.. because you say so?

January 5 Amber Lmao because ir is what it is

January 5 Mandie Ok I wont ask you do a thing again we will see how long it will be before I hear from you

January 5 Amber Actually, u initiate everything… Which I just realized… Which is really not a good thing… Idk why that is…

January 5 Mandie Because thats ME making an attempt to become an actual friend after all this time

January 5 Amber Yeah which makes me a real ass Clearly i’m not making much effort, which I didn’t even realize so it hasn’t been intentional… But it shouldn’t be that way… Sooo.. that’s going to change…

January 7 Mandie I have gotten your text, I’m not ignoring you. Just not sure how to respond after the way you were acting and calling me a bitch.

January 7 Amber What did you not get the last several messages that night? Where I realized I’ve not been putting much effort into this friendship? And that I said it was going to change? Well, if you’re not ready to talk to me it’s fine, but I meant it when I said it was going to change, and that’s why I’m txting, so you see I am interested in making the effort.

January 7 Mandie Yes I read them but I still didnt shake the way you acted… calling me a bitch was extreme

January 7 Amber Well you weren’t exactly Mrs. Peachy

January 7 Mandie Thank you!

January 7 Amber “Yes, Amber, I realize that. I’m sorry I was having a bad day and taking it out on you.” “Oh it’s ok Mandie. I love you like a sister, I’m over it. ”

January 7 Mandie I’m not apoligizing to someone for calling me a bitch bad day or not as I wouldnt expect you to had I called you anything. which i didnt

January 7 Amber Who said you were apologizing for me calling you a bitch? No, but you could apologize for acting like one.

January 7 Mandie If I thought I was then I would have bringing something up doesnt make me a bitch

January 7 Amber Maybe you should listen to yourself sometimes when you talk.

January 7 Mandie Hmmm how many times have I said the same to you

January 7 Amber Well, I’m not arguing, so TTFN. Said what to me?

January 7 Mandie and considering you are READING what I am saying what context could you have taken it to call me a bitch

January 7 Amber That I should listen to myself? I do. And I also apologize when I say things that are too harsh. But given the way you were talking to me, it wasn’t.

January 7 Mandie Ok if thats what you think

January 7 Amber This is one of our problems. You never admit to doing anything wrong, it’s always amber’s fault. Well, no, it’s not. It’s yours sometimes too.

January 7 Mandie I am prefectly aware of that I have said I am sorry for things MANY times

January 7 Amber Really? to who?

January 7 Mandie I told you that it was starting to piss me off how half ass of a friend you are (more or less) and after calling me a bitch then you say “oh I realize I haven’t put any effort in” but you need me to apoligize for bringing it up?

January 7 Amber No, for the way you were speaking to me. But clearly you think you did NOTHING wrong so forget it. It’s not worth a stupid argument over.

January 7 Mandie oh god forget it! you are beyond impossible to have a conversation with

January 7 Amber Wow, overreact much? All I said is it’s not worth an argument! Geesh, get over it already.

January 7 Mandie I’m not even arguing with you and all you say is this isnt worth arguing over, im not arguing with you.. WHOS arguing?

January 7 Amber You are disputing everything I say instead of just letting it go.

January 7 Mandie ok let it go! There ya go!

January 7 Amber Thank you! I was going to see if you wanted to go to Olive Garden tomorrow but somehow I doubt you’d want to.

January 8 Mandie Just got this… Sounds like you already have plans. Have fun

January 14 Mandie Point is nobody called you the last resort.. this is you coming to a conclusion on your own. someone reaches out for someone to talk to (which you have asked for all along) and this is what you come up with.

January 14 Amber Well, it was how it made me feel. Saying “Last resort.” Why should I want to get close to someone who makes me feel that’s all I am?

January 14 Mandie Amber god love you but you have always wondered why I tell you I dont think I can talk to you about things or I dont feel like I can this is why you made me being upset and actualy saying I could really use someone to talk to (for the first time) about you

January 14 Amber Well don’t say stuff like “last resort” and make me feel worthless and maybe it’d be easier.

January 14 Mandie HAD you asked what I meant then you would know I was saying my last resort is needing someone to talk to about it.. because I dont talk to people about anything.. I deal with it on my own my last resort=talking

January 14 Amber well sorry that I don’t ask what you mean by hurtful things you say before having a reaction!

January 14 Mandie NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! they become hurtful because you take them into your own context and make them hurtful you think everything that comes out of my mouth is hurtful even when you have NO clue what I am talking about!

January 14 Amber Yeah you know you’re the only person who thinks those things are taken out of context. I could delete all the other txts between us and just show someone that ONE and they would allt hink the SAME thing I did

January 14 Mandie I’m not doing this today.. I am barely holding on today.. I dont need anymore shit I was just coming to you thats all my mistake

January 14 Amber Neither do I!

January 14 Mandie Just forget I came to you As you can tell from my status updates this morning and now.. it has NOTHING to do with you

January 14 Amber So cherish said she doesn’t want to be friends with you?

January 14 Mandie No

January 14 Amber Then what happened?

January 14 Mandie I made my attempt to talk about it

January 14 Mandie with you

January 14 Amber Wow, ok. Well have a nice day then.

January 14 Mandie YOU BETCHA! this is my point on our incredible half ass lack of a friendship I have NO clue why we even bother talking

January 14 Amber Yeah me neither! I just let you say things constantly that upset me and then I’m always the one apologizing for it in the end.

January 14 Mandie Everytime I even say hi.. i wonder why did I even do that

January 14 Amber Then don’t.

January 14 Mandie EVERYTHING hurts your feelings

January 14 Amber No, everything does not.

January 14 Mandie no matter what I say you say it hurts your feelings

January 14 Amber But when it does, why should *I* end up the one apologizing for it? I shouldn’t.

January 14 Mandie If you take something I said in diferent context then what I mean I will tell you what I meant where is there an apology needed?

January 14 Amber For saying some of the things you say without thinking about how the other person might feel!

January 14 Mandie I dont ask you for apolgize for anything.. i dont care enough about incredibly small things to say.. oh amber you should say sorry for that its IMPOSSIBLE to think of how you might feel after I say anything everything either hurts your feelings, makes you mad, offends you or upsets you.

January 14 Amber Ok and I tell you how I feel, and you say NOTHING. So then I post it on FB cuz I FEEL LIKE IT and then I get all kinds of CRAP.

January 14 Mandie You didn’t tell me how you felt.. litteraly within 30 seconds you posted that on facebook.

January 14 Amber No, everything doesn’t. But when it does, I shouldn’t have to feel like I have to just take it. No, it was not 30 seconds. It was a while after.

January 14 Mandie you are the touchiest person on earth well I got your text AFTER reading what you poste

January 14 Amber I have enough going on with my health. I do NOT need this. Well that’s not MY fault!

January 14 Mandie I DONT GIVE A SHIT WHAT YOU POSTED! I was just telling you that you were wrong on what you thought I meant.. HOW does that become a big deal? nobody is blaming you for anything.. I am just asking how EVERYTIME i talk to you it turns into drama everytime I say hi want to have lunch want to talk how are you everything ok ALL ends in drama or you being pist because I did or didnt say something right

January 14 Amber Wow that’s quite an exaggeration.

January 14 Mandie for the first time since I met you I came to you needing someone to talk to.. sure enough ends in more BS

January 14 Amber Yeah well not like i can ever go to you for someone to talk to.

January 14 Mandie then amber there is no poitn in continuing this you think I am such a horrible person.. and you ouldnt be more wrong I have made EVERY attempt to be there for you for anything and everything

January 14 Amber “Being there for me” doesn’t mean taking me out so I can spend more money I don’t have on food or shopping.

January 14 Mandie WOW then how hard is it to say no I can’t but wouldnt’ mind sitting at one of our houses to talk it’s VERY easy

January 14 Amber I’ve done that, a LOT. And you always say “nevermind.”

January 14 Mandie funny not that I can ever recall

January 14 Amber Or you say nothing at all. Yeah EVERY time something has REALLY bothered me i have ALWAYS said I didn’t want to get out of the house but that I’d like if you came over. You either say NOTHING or “nevermind.”

January 14 Mandie No I read that on twitter or facebook after saying something is wrong then I read.. wow I would really like a friend to come over. Wish I had a friend to come and hang out with me how hard is it to pick up a damn phone and say “hey I dont want to get out but could use some company wanna come over” the day you called me about htinking somthing was wrong with your hear you text me and said I really need you will you come over.. I rolled out of bed and was at your house in 10 minutes.

January 14 Amber I’m not talking about FB or twitter, I’m talking about txts between just you and me.

January 14 Mandie but I can see how that is not being there for oyu

January 14 Amber I don’t know what bs you’re talking about with fb or twitter. yeah ok so ONE of the times that i needed someone. ONE. Out of MANY.

January 14 Mandie Yep I have only been there once

January 14 Amber That doesn’t make you an angel.

January 14 Mandie how about when you were cheating on dave.. I was there for you EVERY damn day when your car screwed up sure let you take mine told me you were pregnant offered AL of my support possible when you are upset and mad.. stick by even though you are discusting to me

January 14 Amber I told you I was pregnant your first words were “You are not pregnant.”

January 14 Mandie thats one time! Goodbye amber I am DONE trying to be your friend is way to fucking hard

January 14 Amber DITTO!

January 14 Mandie for god sake I have tryed to even give you a christmas gift for WEEKS!

January 14 Mandie WOW deleted in 2 seconds thats a record. Best of luck to you amber REALLY

January 14 Amber The last thing I need right now is to deal with your drama!

January 14 Mandie the last thing you need to deal with are fucking kidding me! I just spend a day in the hospital because of my health and told that my babies health could be at risk, got a call my dad is going into the hospital in Arizona for 3 weeks because his dialisis isn’t working anymore and I cant go because I am not high risk pregnancy, my cousin and I had a HUGE falling out. Do you think I need shit from anyone else NO I don’t.. but then again if amber doesn’t need it then thats what most important.

January 14 Mandie *now

January 14 Amber I didn’t say I didn’t need to be there for you. I don’t need this attitude of yours. I CANNOT HANDLE THIS from you. I have enough going on with my OWN HEALTH without dealing with your attitude!

January 14 Mandie you expect me to jump over the mood to be there for you.. but godforbid you go out of your way to be there for someone else EVER! you can call me a bitch whatever you want I dont give a damn. This is how I FEEL so according to you then it has to be right. All I have asked is to make an attempt to have some what of a normal friendship.. and after all this time it’s impossible. Anytime I talk to you your instantly nasty and it makes no sense. I noticed it while christmas shopping, Alex and I were out and I got your christmas gift alex said why are you spending so much on Amber I said I dont know I feel liek this time we are on the right track so I want to do something nice… then reality hit me.. Why would I think that? there is no right track.

January 14 Mandie You wont get my attitude anymore.. for some reason you are the ONLY person who finds attitude in me saying Hi how are you. it’s exhausting. I wish you the best with your pregnancy, your heart, your depression, your moods and whatever else you claim I dont care about.

January 14 Amber Ha! I’m not the only damn person who sees your attitude problems.

January 14 Mandie you read my very first message.. and didnt even say “sorry you are dealing with that” you turned it into being about HOw you feel and what you cant handle and hwo I have an attitude. thats how I know this is ALL wrong. If you told me that the first thing I would say is Ok I am sorry you are dealing with that. Thats what I mean about you having to come first

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