Ok, this can’t wait for tomorrow.
First thing this morning I sent Troy this message:
I don’t know why, but I feel like sharing a few things with you. When we first matched on Tinder way back, I was polyamorous (loving relationships with more than one person at a time). I’ve only recently given it up because it has caused me too much pain, I just can’t go through that again. It just isn’t worth it. Anyway. I never dared to tell you before, but it’s true: I think you’re much better looking than him. And omg your cock. Yeah, incomparable. I didn’t pursue anything back then because he acted like he was all heartbroken at the idea of me sleeping with his best friend. I feel like that was just an act now. The only thing is, now I’m scared. I’ve been warned that he has stalker tendencies, and a friend was being nosy on his page a few days ago and saw that he said he’s been screenshotting my posts. I’m scared it’s going to go beyond Facebook as he’s done to others. And I know what he’s capable of, making it all the more frightening. Now, I also have learned that he’s been spreading B.S. about me. I’m not sure what all he’s saying, but I am not a vengeful person. Yes, I felt betrayed, but I got over it surprisingly quickly considering what I had (thought I) felt for him. I have no reason or desire to spread lies about him or get back at him. That’s petty high school drama, I’m trying my best to stay out of it and move on with my life. My only concern now is that my dang Facebook is being watched by people and I don’t even know who so I can block them, and also concerned that it’s possible he could come after me outside of Facebook. But I’m doing the best I can. Anyway, as for you. I’ve wanted to be with you for quite some time now lol. I think we could have quite a bit of fun together and I’d like to go for it. Do I want a relationship? Well, really I don’t know you well enough to make that determination. I just figured we’d have some fun. Though, in all honesty, kinda feels like you’re just teasing. Only time will tell.
A short while later Daniel posted on Facebook “Putting this sucker on spin!! Letting it all come out…” which would be an awfully big coincidence if it had nothing to do with what I’d sent his best friend.
Then this happens:
First of all, I was angry that he was slandering me. But then I got really scared.
See, Mindi has proof of him admitting that he’s a stalker and has impulse control issues.
Plus, he’s previously admitted that he has thoughts “opposite” to mine. I’ve probably never clarified — mine are suicidal, his are homicidal. Yeah, I know, I should have stayed the fuck away when he divulged that a few months ago. Hindsight is 20/20.
So, with all of this going on, I’m scared he’s going to start stalking me (and her) in “real life” and of what he may do if given the chance.
I went to the police station to get advice and make sure that they have a record of what’s been going on. The officer suggested Mindi and I both stop posting anything on Facebook about either of them. Mindi has posted stuff and I’ve commented, but now her profile is deactivated anyway. I haven’t really posted anything about what’s been going on. I was also given information about the process for getting a restraining order and told to screenshot their posts as proof of my case. They are going to do extra patrols outside my house at night as a precaution.